Taking Control Over Finances

LOOK AT IT ALL!AND I MEAN ALL OF IT: Beforebeen doing lately to make my family's financial
you can make change, you need to take stock ofsituation far more organized:a. Getting it all
your financial situation. This includes bills (one timetogether. I'm a teacher; therefore, I spend a lot
and recurring); debt (list each and every creditof time during the school year avoiding my
card, its balance, its interest and the monthlypersonal mail, etc., and just paying my bills once a
minimum that is required as well as the amountmonth on-line. I rarely look at actual due dates
you usually pay); the savings (bank accounts and(making our credit situation not so pretty) and
regular savings wherever they may be; IRAs,often end up paying late fines. My major project
401(k)s, other retirement plans etc.), and all ofthis summer is two-fold: getting a handle on our
your assets (cars are generally not an assetfinancial situation and de-cluttering my house to
unless you owe less than they are worth). Writemake it look nicer and be easier to live in. How
it all down so you can see where you stand. Thisam I doing that? I once got a great piece of
is truly the first step that must be taken beforeadvice that is perfect for tasks that are tedious
you can do anything to take control over youror overwhelming -- require yourself to only do the
money.While getting control over your paperworktask for 15 minute periods. In fact, I set a timer
will not make you money or directly take you outfor my decluttering in general including my
of debt, you must know what kinds of problemspaperwork. I tend to spend well more than 15
you are facing in order to pull yourself out. Thereminutes on the task; however, the timer makes it
are a few basic products that have helped me toseem like it's no big deal: anybody can do almost
get my finances organized and to maintain thatanything for only 15 minutes, right.b. My first job
organization. The first is just a simple spiralwas to clear off a table of accumulated
notebook. This book goes almost everywherepaperwork and to find every statement for
with me and helps me to keep track of ideas oreverything we pay bills on - once I got rid of a
spending during the course of the day. It wasgreat deal of the stuff we had no need for,
where I decided to make my first list of all my(mostly in the shredder), I was just randomly
expenses, debts, savings and assets. A simpleputting the rest into a "to deal with" mail holder,
pen and paper list is sometimes the easiest waywhich, itself, became a clutter keeper. So, I went
to get started. In fact, when I started, I guessedthrough that with my file boxes & my notebook
at everything: I made the list as I went along,sitting on my dining room table and dealt with it.
first from my head and then by looking at myThe best advice for paperwork is to touch it
bank statements. Another way to make the list isonce. I'm happy right now touching it twice: once
to make it ongoing for a month (although I don'twhen I open it, and, sometimes, later, when I deal
think you should wait so long to take control overwith it again. (I am looking into a better set up of
your finances).But the point is that you want tomy home office so that the files can be easily
create an accurate financial list of each and everyaccessed and I can really only touch once.)c. I
bill that you have: the total debt, the monthlythen put it all into my spiral notebook as I found it:
minimum, etc. And, whether this can be donedebts, starting with the mortgage, the home
today or over the course of the month, youequity line of credit, the cars and student loans
need to get it done because you cannot solveand moved down to regular credit cards and
your problems if you do not know what exactlystore cards. Each debt got the same notes: Total
they are. When that list is complete, believe meamount left, interest rate, monthly payments, and
you will be shocked. You will be shocked at how"minimum payments." I also wrote down the
much you didn't realize about your debt: its total,other monthly expenses that may or may not
its monthly expense; how much you are paying inhave been "discretionary" -- it took me a while to
finance charges (the amount you are paying justfigure out all of them, as my statements came in,
to have used the money). You will start toI could find a lot of what I was looking for. Thus,
understand why money always feels tight:we had utilities and services, groceries, newspaper
because it is. Your monthly debt payments maydelivery, water delivery, home care, books,
be eating up so much of your take home pay,magazines, lessons, the exterminator, gas,
that you don't have the money left over to paycleaning, allowance, commuting, etc. It was great
your everyday expenses, let alone all the extrasto look at it on a page and see how much money
that we like to have in life. You might also bewe spend a month and how much interest we
pleasantly surprised about a few things: some billspay a month, a year, a life time. It was a true
that can be eliminated quickly, or debts that are"AHA" moment, and life has been very different
coming to an end. If you've had 401k's fromsince that time. As I paid the bills that month, I
different jobs and haven't paid attention to them,put a running list in my spiral notebook -- new
or never added them together, you may find thatbalances and amounts paid.d. Then, I put all of the
you have a bit more saved for retirement thaninformation into Quicken as I explained above. I
you anticipated. But, you need the list of all yourmay have a few accounts that are not yet set
debts and all your savings in order to take controlup; I have been taking the statements as they
over your money.The second product I am goingcome in and creating a Quicken account from
to recommend is financial tracking software. Ithose statements. The next step is to create a
have begun using Quicken 2007 , and what I loveQuicken cash account.e. It was that process that
about that program is that it allows me to get anled me to realize that we were going to be in dire
even more accurate picture of my financesfinancial straits if we did not take control over our
because I can categorize every expense: thus, Ifinancial situation and soon. That is what led to the
can go in and figure out how much money Isteps we have taken since organizing and the
spent last month in finance charges, or forideas we have generated. Ultimately, it also led
groceries (if I paid with a card of some kind). Itme to create this site as both a source of
allows you to download the information, savingaccountability and a source for others for advice.f.
you time; however, I prefer to put everything inI am now in the process of figuring out how we
by hand: it keeps me far more aware of theare doing since we have starting taking control
various ways I spend money. For me, Quickenover money.D.Fielding
has been amazing: I downloaded it and within awebsite is about my family's struggle to gain
week had almost every account we have on it.control over our money: organizing it all and then
I've probably spent 10 hours on it in total: therefiguring out what to do about the spending,
was virtually no learning curve, every moment Isavings, investing, and, most importantly, debt.
have spent on it has been spent keying inOther than the article above, you can rid about
information. I am adding a new feature that I willmany of our techniques and tactics, information I
need: a cash tracking account; after I do so, I'll behave learned and resources to help yourself
able to have an even better picture of where webetter manage your finances. Our goal is to get
spend our money.The third product that I haveout of debt and enjoy our money in ways that
found extremely helpful is an excellent filingare valuable to us and not wasteful. We have
system. It is not an actual set of files, but ratherbegun that journey by taking a number of steps
a file system for the home that has pre-madethat we discuss in the website.You should find the
categories in it. It takes about two hours to setsite interesting. I am frequently updating it
up (and, you need to order or buy the filesbecause I am using it to force me to maintain all
themselves), but once it is set up, it makes yourof the hard work we have done and to keep
filing easy to accomplish and easy to handle. It islearning so that I can teach others. In my career,
called File Solutions and can be ordered directlyI teach Social Studies to High School students;
from the company, (I have absolutely no affiliationthus, it is natural for me to always be learning and
to this company, I just use the product and lovealways be sharing what it is I have learned with
it).If you are finding it difficult to get your financesothers. If you come by, be sure to let me know
organized so that you can take a good, hard lookhow you like the site.Thanks, Mrs. F.
at them, you are not alone. Here is what I have